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Wedding planning for the anti bride

Saturday, May 1st, 2010

Wedding planning for the anti brideThere is a stereotype that every woman has waited his whole life to get involved and become a wife. Of course, the fantasy of many young girls, but it is also true that every woman in the whole “girlfriend” thing. But just because you “anti-bride” does not mean you do not want a big wedding.
So what is an anti-wife? It is he who does not return the wedding magazines on the stand, could only make subtle differences between ecru and eggshell, and it is not “obey” the promise of person. Especially, can not imagine the anti-wife, dressed in poufy mainsail cathedral length and sparkling crown. In other words, it is not in the “princess for a day” fantasy.
When you are engaged and realized that Carrie Bradshaw once said in Sex and the City, you’re “missing the gene for the bride,” you may indeed be an anti-wife. Even if you feel you are surrounded by people, press molded into a nightmare of tulle, ice sculptures, such as swans and other things that make you hyperventilate, do not panic: You’re not alone. There are actually many other women out there like you, anti-brides who want a big wedding, but on their own terms.
The key to a happy to be anti-wife is to be true to themselves. So if your mother tried to understand the wedding of her dreams, or your employees not only why you wear a wedding dress red push ready to defend your dress. Chances are good that you made this more of your adult life, anyway.
I knew a bride who has lived a completely “off grid” lifestyle. She and her boyfriend lived in a cabin in the woods without electricity (by choice) and grew much of their own food. For her wedding, a grand ball gown satin would have felt quite ridiculous, and so they chose a lovely dress vintage cotton lace at the beginning of the century. His mother was the kind of person he was always his (think vegetarian without electricity, mind!) Things like electric irons and carving knife and could not understand why the bride was not planning to a wedding list that had filled his little cabin with China and imported crystal.
There came a time when the bride saw her mother in the eye and said, “Remember me, I am your daughter, Susan!” In other words, I am not following you, and I am not my sister who lives on Long Island and drives a Hummer. His mother never understood, but they come at least a truce for the rest of the wedding planning.
If you are an anti-bride, you can also make good friends to lend much support as you plan your perfect wedding. They are the ones that your decision, the wedding dress of your choice, whatever you think of them again. They are also the ones that your good mood, even on days when the whole marriage thing is to continue to drive you crazy.
Make sure you confirm them with special gifts bridesmaid. Something unique that matches their personality is perfect. If you are an anti-wife, chances are that you (dressed instead of a string of girls the same chiffon aqua) with only a few of your closest friends as a companion, it gives you the freedom to customize your bridesmaid gifts for each of your friends.
The good news for anti-wives is that all marriages are the expression in those days. There are tons of organic caterers, seamstress’s creative, helping others out there planning a wedding that truly reflects who you are. Bride-or anti-wife, is it really all that most women want their marriage to end (with the exception of husband, of course).